Michael Gill, Co-chair of Pride, Riverside’s LGBTQIA+ colleague group.

Trans Day of Remembrance (TDOR), recognised every 20 November, aims to honour the lives of transgender people who have been lost to violence and discrimination.

In the UK, this day holds a unique significance, reflecting both the progress made in advancing trans rights and the ongoing challenges faced by the trans community in a changing social and political landscape.

The awareness day remains crucial as, while violent attacks against transgender individuals are not as common in the UK compared to other countries, they still occur; with the UK Home Office reporting significant rises in hate crimes against transgender people in recent years such as verbal abuse, physical attacks, and online harassment. Behind these statistics are real lives — individuals who were targeted simply for living as their authentic selves.

TDOR is a reminder of these lives and the violence that still exists. It provides an opportunity for communities to pause and reflect on the human cost of intolerance, to honour the memory of those who have been lost, and to acknowledge the impact on grieving families and friends.

The UK has made strides in LGBTQIA+ equality, with legislation such as the Equality Act 2010 and the Gender Recognition Act 2004 offering some protections for transgender people. TDOR is a chance to highlight the challenges still facing the trans community without framing the conversation as adversarial. The day encourages understanding and empathy, focusing on the shared goal of ensuring dignity and safety for everyone, regardless of their gender identity.

In the UK, discussions about trans rights and inclusion have become increasingly polarised.

TDOR offers a chance to step back from heated debates and focus on shared humanity. It invites all sides of the conversation to reflect on how we can reduce harm and create a society where differences are met with understanding rather than hostility.

It is also a time for allies—friends, families, and colleagues—to show their support for trans people. The UK is at a crossroads in terms of how it approaches trans rights and inclusion. TDOR offers a moment of reflection: are we creating a society where everyone can live free from fear and with dignity? Progress often begins with awareness, and by encouraging dialogue, empathy, and action, TDOR serves as a reminder that while much has been achieved, there is still work to do.